Monday, June 11, 2007

Presumptuous me!!

Thank you to all who wrote comments and emails to me about my previous entry. It lets me know that I am in a place where I am surrounded by people who matter. Believe you me, it’s a great feeling.

I think that a little clarification is required… I have to stop writing these 2-3 minute speed writing blogs (though the current one is no exception but I have always been a slow learner)… there can’t be a more fitting case of over confidence ….akin to swim the English Channel after first 20 twenty minutes of swimming in a baby pool!!

I have been congratulated, blessed , passed on good wishes, asked curious questions about my previous entry and this is all I have to say …. I was presumptuous in my claim when I said that “Dont know about you but I found mine”

This is how it works. This blog is predominantly an outlet for me, conversations with myself, sporadic thoughts in the cyber world. I don’t realise the audience, the manner, my choice of words, I just write on with completely content to give structure and words to my thoughts and feelings. Last post demonstrates this best. I went on to declare that I have ‘found mine’ at a stage which I now realise was too preliminary and my thoughts naïve. Truth is that I am close, not quite there, and got too excited, jumped the gun and shouted as if to say “Eureka” ! I felt the connection and almost immediately didn’t .

I do stick to my earlier closing that one should feel arrived in life if one has found that person. I am close but not quite there……..

3 comments:

Unleash your innerself said...

My dear thoughtful,

Whenwe express our innerself we need give a clarifiaction but then again its a matter of choice. " I found mine " Does not mean a partner to me...it is a soulmate, friend, someone you feel comfortable talking to, u can relate to and ofcourse share ure thoughts with without feeling that the person will be judgemental.

I am a little taken by surprise by reading the new blog...especially the line " I felt the connection and almost immediately didn't."

Connection is felt once and can't be refuted. connection can happen with anyone. I feel connected to plants...trees and animals but they aren't the ones to be my partners so The one you found or about to find can be anyone or no one. Relations don't always need a name. Some relations are beautiful without names. So don't hold it back.

These are my thoughts without any implications and presumptions and assumptions. So don't hold back whatever you felt no matter whether the other person feels or not.

Amazing Grace said...

My Dear,

When we dont care because something is too special to gain society's recognition; then why the clarification?

How does it matter who thinks what? Why make the connection felt small.. by saying that we lost it?

As long as we are true to ourselves... no ones comments should matter.. especially blessings and good wishes :) right?

Take care,

Anonymous said...

Hi Pranav,
It was the first time i visited ur blog...its so simple yet so impactful...can actually relate to each n evry entry and agree to it as well.

Keep writing...hope to read some more intresting stuff SOON. :)

Varu